Finding Connection and Confidence: Ethan’s Journey with Adoption UK

When Ethan* joined the Connected youth groups at age 11, he was struggling. Anxiety and poor mental health, caused by an education system that failed to meet his needs, had left him unable to attend school. His parents felt isolated and worried about his future as he coped with severe OCD and tics.

Then Sarah*, the Connected Lead Youth Worker, stepped in. She visited Ethan’s family at home, listened to their concerns, and reassured them that they weren’t alone. Her warmth and understanding helped Ethan to feel safe. Although his parents weren’t sure he would feel comfortable joining a Connected youth group, Sarah’s gentle encouragement gave him the confidence to give it a try.

At his first session, Ethan met other adopted young people with similar experiences. Over time, his feelings of isolation eased, and his confidence grew. Ethan thrived in the group over the years, even contributing to projects such as designing the group’s logo. He remembers one significant moment clearly: a Bird of Prey event where a large owl perched on his arm. Reflecting on it, he said, “That was a big day for me. If this bird accepts me, I can’t be that bad to be around.”

For Ethan’s parents, the groups also provided a sense of community and comfort. While their children connected, they could relax, share experiences with other adoptive parents, and take a much-needed break. For families like Ethan’s, those moments of respite made all the difference.

Today, Ethan has built a strong network of friends, both online and in person. He is thriving outside of traditional schooling and becoming more independent. Though he no longer needs regular support from Connected, he knows Adoption UK will always be there for him.

Ethan’s story highlights the importance of connection, understanding, and timely support. It’s a reminder that no one should face these challenges alone, and together, we can create a brighter future for the care-experienced community. 

*Names have been changed to protect privacy.